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Newsletter (May 2013)

Moonlighting - By Karen Ellyard
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May 2013

This month I would like to talk to you about boundaries. Boundaries are important in all areas of our lives as they state to us that we respect and honour ourselves enough to set one. We need to set boundaries in all of our relationships and this is no different.

It is also very important that if we are working with spirit in any capacity that we also set boundaries.

Spirit is drawn to those that can communicate and if we don’t set boundaries we can get bombarded constantly.

Like with all aspects of our life we are not on call 24 hours, 7 days a week.

When working with spirit we are in control and need to exercise that control and set the boundaries that we need.

As examples only, I will share with you some of the boundaries I have set and encourage you to set the boundaries that honour you.

I don’t read for family. This doesn’t always go down well but sometimes if spirit shares not want the person wants but needs to hear often it can be a case of shoot the messenger and I don’t want that antagonism to come into family relationships.

I have also asked spirit not to show me things I can’t do anything about.

I don’t need to tap into the energy of something that might be going to happen if there is nothing I can do about it as it is just too distressing.

I also set a boundary that I was not to be woken in the night with messages unless it was something I needed to attend to during the night. It can wait until the morning.

My bedroom is also off limits as this is a personal space I am not prepared to share.

When on holiday I asked not to be disturbed to give myself a chance to recharge.

Spirit is excited to connect but if you set a boundary they will honour it. Boundaries empower us. We all deserve to be respected and honoured in all aspects of our lives.

This is something we do for ourselves. We need to let go of the outcome as we are not responsible for other’s reactions. We need to take responsibility for our lives.

I wish you peace, love and boundaries that honour you and others.

Love & blessings


“Be faithfull to that which exists within yourself”
~ Andre Gide


take five

Sit with a pen and paper and make a list of things you like about yourself. If you can have a photo of yourself as a child it is very powerful, look at this child and write down what you would say to him or her to encourage him or her.

Smile at the child and send him or her love.

Close your eyes, relax and breathe. Say several times..

I accept, I love, I forgive and trust myself. I deserve.

Karen Ellyard. Spiritual Healer

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